Is there such a thing as a no strings attached sexual relationship? Do people eventually "catch feelings" or is it possible to separate emotions from physical gratification? Share your thoughts/experience.
Whoever says that emotions don't eventually get involved is not being honest with themselves. How can you share your body with someone and not connect with them? I dont understand. You should perhaps look into street walking.
Sexual fulfillment has absolutely NOTHING to do with emotions. I've been honest with myself since I knew what turned me on and what didn't.
And why do I have to be a street walker because I don't have an emotional attachment because I enjoy sex with no strings?
Oh, I see where you're going with this. You're "thinking" that I'm just picking random men to do this with. That's your problem: you're ASSUMING which no one asked you to do.
I wasn't attacking you personally but it seems you have some issues underlying your behaviour and that's why you feel the need to explain yourself. Calm down and dare to be honest with yourself.
I have no issues other than I'm not seeking a relationship at this time in my life. If that's an issues, so be it I guess.
I'm honest with myself every day. One can't lie to ones self. That's why I can be honest about having a NSA relationship. It gets no more honest than that.
@ Shanika - Like everything in life it's a personal choice (especially when you are not looking for a committed relationship at the time). My heart & my mind are separate from my sexual desires (most of the time you meet & greet the person before deciding if that person will be the one, so there ends up being some level of mutual respect for each other if both parties agree to proceed). There are a lot of people like me out here. Some of us can admit who we are & what we need while others hide behind relationships that they're in but yet they sneak around & cheat. Now cheating is worst to me than someone who out rightly tells you that they aren't looking for anything other than sex.
yes, it can be done without catching feelings.
ReplyDeleteWhoever says that emotions don't eventually get involved is not being honest with themselves. How can you share your body with someone and not connect with them? I dont understand. You should perhaps look into street walking.
ReplyDeleteSexual fulfillment has absolutely NOTHING to do with emotions. I've been honest with myself since I knew what turned me on and what didn't.
ReplyDeleteAnd why do I have to be a street walker because I don't have an emotional attachment because I enjoy sex with no strings?
Oh, I see where you're going with this. You're "thinking" that I'm just picking random men to do this with. That's your problem: you're ASSUMING which no one asked you to do.
I wasn't attacking you personally but it seems you have some issues underlying your behaviour and that's why you feel the need to explain yourself. Calm down and dare to be honest with yourself.
DeleteI have no issues other than I'm not seeking a relationship at this time in my life. If that's an issues, so be it I guess.
DeleteI'm honest with myself every day. One can't lie to ones self. That's why I can be honest about having a NSA relationship. It gets no more honest than that.
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DeleteSo how do u fuck someone and not even like them????
Delete@ Shanika - Like everything in life it's a personal choice (especially when you are not looking for a committed relationship at the time). My heart & my mind are separate from my sexual desires (most of the time you meet & greet the person before deciding if that person will be the one, so there ends up being some level of mutual respect for each other if both parties agree to proceed). There are a lot of people like me out here. Some of us can admit who we are & what we need while others hide behind relationships that they're in but yet they sneak around & cheat. Now cheating is worst to me than someone who out rightly tells you that they aren't looking for anything other than sex.
Deleteyes mi do it all time di man dem to bad fi a try tek dem serious fk an duck mi seh
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