Wednesday, July 17, 2019

Should I Ask Him to Move in with Me?

Dear WISY,

I don't usually write to people for advice, but I need some help.  I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years, and I feel like it's time for us to get more serious.  I have been hinting to him that I want him to propose, but he's not getting it.  All of my friends are getting engaged and married and I'm just sitting here looking stupid with this man I've been with for over two years.

I think I should ask him to move in together.  I am not one of those women who think it's wrong to live together before marriage.  I believe a couple should know how they will gel before commitment.  

What do you think about me initiating the move in request?  This is okay to post.  I would like to hear different opinions.

Signed,
Ready
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WISY's Response:

Dear Ready,

I think it's perfectly fine for you to ask him, but please understand that asking him to move in with you is not a guarantee that he will propose.  If anything, he will probably take that as a sign that you are willing to move forward as is.  


My advice is that you stop hinting and start being blunt about your desires.  Communication is always key.  Once you talk to him, you'll know if he wants to take it to the next level with you or not.

Walk good,
#TeamWISY
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