Wednesday, February 22, 2017

I've Been Sleeping with my Friends' Men

Dear WISY,

I don't know where to begin but I can start by saying I know I'm confused and I know I'm really messed up for this but I can't help how I feel.  I try to convince myself to stop but I keep returning my wrongdoings.  

Anyway, I guess I should stop beating around the bush now and tell you what my problem is.  Okay, I have slept with most of my friends' boyfriends or husbands.  I started doing this with my cousin who behaved as if her husband was so perfect and I just couldn't stand it so I made it my mission to point out his imperfection.  I didn't even have to try hard; he fell for me the first time I flirted with him and we had sex the same night.  Ever since then, I've gotten a kick out of how I can make everyone else's man want to have sex with me and follow through.

I've never bothered to tell any of my friends about their men but there's one guy that I'm beginning to like a lot and I feel like she should know about her man before they get married and I know this is wrong but once she leaves him, I can have him.  I promise I'm a good person but I just don't know what makes me do this.  He's my friend's fiance' and I'm in their wedding but I've been sleeping with consistently for months.

He told me that my sex is good and he wishes things were different.  I know that people say things they don't mean during sex but he says it at random times in text messages.  It makes me want him in other ways aside from sex.  I KNOW THIS IS WRONG, I KNOW!

I know this is all horrible and I know you're probably going to let me have it but understand I do want to change this behavior and I'd like you to help me stop.  

It feels so good to get this off of my chest!

Signed,
Creeping with your Man
WISY's Response:

Dear CWYM,

Girllllllllllll!  So jealousy of your cousin's happiness and pride in her relationship caused you to spread your legs and prove that you're an unhappy, psycho?? Okay.

I believe that somehow these romps with your friends' and family's significant others gives you a boost of confidence and the reason you can't stop is because you need this constant validation because, let me guess, you have never been able to hold down a successful relationship of your own.  There are many women who have struggled with their relationships, that's not an automatic reason to sleep with your friends' men.  

I'm sitting here thinking of how you've learned these men's weaknesses by being a listening ear for your friends.  You probably used that information to work in your favor and got these idiots to risk their relationships for someone looking for kicks.

In a way, I do want you to tell all (not just one) of them what you've done and it would be well deserved if they all made amends with their men and left you out in the cold.  Then maybe you will realize that getting a man to sleep with you is like getting an athlete to drink water after playing a rigorous game; it's not a major accomplishment.  Try something a little less common and then maybe you can begin to feel a sense of fulfillment.

Cut everything off immediately and thank the most high that you haven't been exposed...yet.  Get a hobby and leave these fools alone.

Walk good,
#TeamWISY
 

3 comments:

  1. I hope they all find out and jump you.

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  2. I would whoop that a$$ to pieces! If you used my information I came to you with about my man to fuck him I would break your bones. I hate insecure bitches....she's probably sloppy and ugly

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