I received a disturbing call from an unknown number stating that my husband is living a double life. My husband is a highly regarded man of the community and condemns the lifestyle he accused of secretly leading. I do not want to believe it but the person is claiming to be my husband's male lover. He was very convincing and spoke of my husband's body in a way that only I should.
To be quite honest, I have noticed my husband's absence both emotionally and physically. I have noticed some changes in him that are hints that he is interested in male companionship. My husband and I haven't been intimate in almost a year and I can't help but think that I have contributed to my husband seeking comfort elsewhere. Why he is seeking it with another male is puzzling to say the least.
I have since been consumed with the information that was delivered. I am unable to concentrate on work and I have lost my appetite. I can barely look my husband in the face. I am overwhelmed with the feeling that my husband is an undercover homosexual and I am dying to ask him about it but am afraid of the consequences. I am thinking of hiring a private investigator to trail him and uncover the truth before I accuse him of anything.
What are your thoughts? Please help! I am losing my mind!
Signed,
Disturbed Wife
Dear Disturbed Wife,
ReplyDeleteThis is a serious allegation and before you make any decisions, you should ask yourself a couple questions:
1. Are you prepared for the allegations to be true?
2. How will you move forward after hearing the news?
I suggest you really take the time to wrap your head around all the possible outcomes of this investigation and mentally prepare for an episode in your life which will surely test your strength.
On the other hand, the allegations could be totally false. If that’s the case, please try to reconnect with your husband. A year of no intimacy is a sign that the marriage is failing. Do something about that.
Another outcome of the investigation may produce something totally different.
Just prepare yourself…for everything.
Good Luck!
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
TOO MANY UNDERCOVER GAY MEN RUNNING AROUND. JUST BE HONEST AND SAY WHO U REALLY ARE!
ReplyDeleteHow are we so sure that he gay? it could be that somebody trying to tarnish he name. get hte p.i. and find out 1st. remember the vow u took at the alter.
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