I need some advice concerning my boyfriend and his best friend. My boyfriend's best friend is a girl and at first I was okay with it when he described her as "one of the boys". Then I met her and was blown away by her appearance. She is curvy and has a gorgeous face! She is what I thought every man would want and I can't help but think that my boyfriend wants her too. To make matters worse, she has a great personality. She's perfect and I feel threatened by her. I can't help but think that one day she will run crying to him about something and he will comfort her and one thing will lead to another and then the next thing you know, they'll end up having sex. The thought of that kills me inside.
I don't want to come off as an insecure girlfriend but I am very worried. I want to say something to him but don't know how to start. What should I say?
Signed,
Jealous
If he wanted her, he would have had her.
ReplyDeleteYou're insecure.
She was there before you. Your insecurity will pose a threat to your relationship, not theirs.
Oh, and that "thought that kills you inside", kill it because it is born out of your insecurities.
He knew her first in all her gorgeousness and yet she is in the friend zone. You came along and you are the girlfriend.
What more do you want??
The Author (s) need to reconsider the tone of their posts when addressing people. Keep it frank, keep it real but approach is everything!
ReplyDeleteo pls ! Some ppl need tuff luv !some need a slap in face wit di reality stick ! cho ! Wi respond to di letters as wi like
DeleteYuh shouldnt be jealous my girl ! Stop be insecure before yuh become annoying to him an him leave yuh.
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