A few months ago I got some disturbing news and I'’ve been trying to share it with my husband but I'’m afraid he will not love me anymore. I am unable to have children and I know how badly he wants to have kids. We have been trying for almost a year now and a few months ago I finally decided to get checked. The results were devastating and I don’t know how to tell my husband. I know there are options but we cannot afford that route.
Please tell me what I should do. I am so afraid that he will leave me because of this.
Signed,
Devastated & Scared
Dear Devastated & Scared,
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear about your situation but do not lose faith so easily. In this modern age of medicine there are always options. I’m not sure what the specifics of your situation are but there is always hope.
My advice will always be to be open and honest in any situation. Tell your husband about your infertility issues. He married you because he loves you and I would hope he would love you through this as well. Together you can explore your options and find something which fits you best. If the medical procedures are unsuccessful you can always consider adoption. There are so many children who need loving families.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY