Hi, it's me again from the "Should I get back with my ex" advice. So, I finally spoke with him and we met up and things happened. Now, he wants to get married and I am ecstatic about the idea, but no one else really is. I feel like I should be cautious because of what happened after we broke up, but he does seem very sorry and sincere about making us work. I know I shouldn't care what people think but I'm not sure. It doesn't feel wrong to want to marry him, but I don't know. If you could once again advise me I'd be much obliged. Also, I would like to let you know that you're amazing and I really appreciate what you do!
Sincerely,
Happy, but confused
WISY's Response:
Dear HBC,
The idea of marriage is definitely exciting, but what about the emotional and psychological work I spoke about in your previous letter? I think that should be priority right now. Your feelings of being cautious is proof that there is still serious underlying issues that need to be worked out. You will need to work on this until those feelings no longer exist. You should be confident in your decision to marry him, and you don't seem too sure right now. I think everyone else in your life can see this also.Walk good,
#TeamWISY
P.S. The appreciation is mutual. 🤗💖
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