I'm writing to ask some advice about my friend. Please post this letter to your blog.
One of my best friends has converted to a religion where they do not believe in using modern products. He has let his hair grow out on his face and on his head. He has become a vegan and grows his own food but what bothers me is the fact that he doesn't use toothpaste or deodorant anymore. He smells so bad that I don't even want to visit him anymore.
I feel terrible because I grew up with him and he still wants the relationship to remain the same but I cannot tolerate the smell. I asked why he doesn't use an all natural deodorant and toothpaste and he told me that I am only offended by his smell because society has been brainwashed to dislike their natural selves - odors and all. I can understand his perspective but it doesn't change the fact that I gag when I smell him.
What should I do? He is my children's Godfather and he has always been around. We all love him dearly but it is so hard to be around him. I'm considering ending the friendship. Am I being too harsh? I might get used to his smell in time but as of right now, it makes me sick and leaves me with a terrible headache.
Any suggestions?
Signed,
Sick of My Friend
