I Don't Want to Get Infected - She's Positive, I'm Negative

Dear WISY,

I'm a negative woman in love with a positive woman.  I really love her a lot and would like to spend the rest of my life with her, but the question is, how do I avoid getting infected?  What should I do and what should I not do?

Signed,
A Caring Lover

Teaching About Sexuality and HIV

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WISY's Advice:

Dear ACL,

I'm not sure of your location and your level of access to quality healthcare, but there are drugs currently available that reduce the chances of transmitting HIV (I'm assuming you're referring to HIV.  Please correct me if I'm wrong) from partner to partner.  You and your partner should both visit a physician for the best possible healthcare advice.  My knowledge is limited but I can say that you should always practice safe sex.  Use dental dams for oral sex, use toys to pleasure each other without exchanging body fluids.  If you can't, then abstain.  As I said previously, my knowledge is limited, so please seek the advice of a professional.

I hope everything works out for the best.
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