Confessions of a Wild Vacation

Dear WISY,

I've been a bad girl on vacation. I'm now dating a 33 year old who is married with 1 child. He met me and liked how I move. His wife is an Adventist and he sells (withheld), he's a hustling gangster. Anyway, I've got to wait until next week to find out if I'm pregnant. My man has been entertaining other women so I got my entertainment too.

Well, I would want to be the only woman, but guess what - before 7 a.m., he's already at my house in (location withheld) to bring me my daily 🍆 then he goes to work. By midday, I'm at his job and getting driven home by him or he gets somebody to take me. He doesn't like me walking on the street.

After work, if I'm not with him, he takes wifey home from work at 8 p.m. Sometimes he's back at my house within the hour or less. We've talked so we are clear I'm not to get attached. That's when he tells me "Baby, my wife can't have no more kids & I want a boy."

I'm like "f*ck baby, I have to pay $10,000 to unblock [my tubes]. Dude jumped up and said he will pay it. I'm like oh boy🤦🏾‍♀️.

So, for a while I was confused. The last week in (location withheld), I decided to tattoo his alias on my chest, we f*cked twice and he didn't notice it until the day after I got back to (location withheld). It made him smile so much.

We're taking things slow and being close friends, but the pregnancy caught me off guard. All I know is I'm in for it. I haven't broken up with my man yet. I tried.

Signed,
Oh Boy

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WISY's Response:

Dear Oh Boy,

Wow!  There's so much going through my head right now, but the first thing of concern is how you will fare knowing that this is somewhat of a transaction.  You stated that you understand that you are not to get attached and you know he is married.  You are ending your current relationship to possibly give birth to this man's child without any proper commitment.  Have you thought about your emotional state through all of that?  Have you thought about what may happen when his wife finds out about the arrangement?

I feel like you're selling yourself short here.  I want to encourage you to get involved with those who can give you 100% of themselves.  Your soon-to-be ex seems like he was playing games and now this guy is married and is very comfortable giving you daily 🍆 and a possible baby.  He seems like the type who could potentially cause you a lot of hurt and pain.  If he does it with you, he will do it to you.  You feel me?  All of what he's been doing for you would be wonderful if he wasn't already involved with someone else.  You deserve someone who is completely committed to you and your happiness.  Now, if he decides to divorce his wife and settle down with you and start a family, I could get on board with that.  I would have still advised you to end one relationship before starting another one though.

Whatever you decide, I hope you are okay in the end.  

Walk good,
#TeamWISY

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