I really like this guy that I'm following. I've been following him for a few months and I feel like I'm falling in love with him. I can't believe that I feel this way. I stalk his profile and go through his likes. I read all the comments and sometimes I get jealous, but don't worry, I've never left a comment and I hardly like any of his posts.
I have a boyfriend who is a good man to me. He is everything I've wanted and my parents think he's perfect too. He just doesn't have the body and smile and charm of this guy I follow. I've found myself not wanting to be with my man because I've been thinking of this other guy. My mind is going in circles.
I feel like sending him a DM to get to know him better. I feel like we could have a decent shot at being together. Do you think I should break up with my man to make room for the potential relationship with this guy? I honestly feel that it could work and I think he would like the fact that I'm pursuing him. Should I go for it?
Falling
Dear Social Media: Do's & Don'ts of Navigating Love in a Digital World of Likes, Lies & Stalking
WISY's Response:
Dear Falling,
Do I think you should go for it? No.
Perhaps you need to take a break from social media for a while to come back to your senses.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
Dear Falling,
Do I think you should go for it? No.
I think you've allowed yourself to create an unrealistic fantasy about someone you know nothing about. You've fallen for physical attributes and who he's chosen to present himself as on social media. Why would you want to leave a man that is good to you and is everything you've wanted for someone who you don't know???
Perhaps you need to take a break from social media for a while to come back to your senses.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
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