My friend's man keeps popping in my DMs with inappropriate messages. At first I ignored them but then he sent me a nude with a caption insinuating that I've always wanted to see it because him and his girl (my friend) had a conversation about me asking about his stroke game. I admit I did ask her about it, but girlfriends talk about that stuff. I never expected her to tell him! And I definitely DO NOT want to see it or feel it for that matter!
Should I tell her that he's been sending messages and now a nude? Or should I keep quiet about it? I hate this kind of stuff. Why can't dudes just act right???????
Signed,
DM Violation
WISY's Advice:
Dear DM Violation,
Yes, tell your friend. It doesn't matter if you hate that kind of stuff, if that's your friend, you speak up. You should have told her since the first message came through, and instead of ignoring it, you should've checked your friend's man for being inappropriate. By keeping quiet and running from the issue, your silence was interpreted as a welcome. Now, you have a bigger mess to deal with.
Give her the opportunity to realize that certain conversations held with her girlfriends are off limits to her man's ears. Most importantly, she needs to know that her man doesn't need much to go looking for outside entertainment and lacks respect for their relationship.
You have a lot to talk about. Get to it.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
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