Dear WISY,
I date a guy who is very popular on my island. He is a part of a sound. If you don’t know what that is, it’s like a group of guys who play music at parties and have sound systems with speakers and sometimes they clash each other to see who has the best music. A little more complicated than that but you get the idea. Those kind of guys are very popular and the girls go mad over them. I knew that before I started dealing with him and I still went ahead and did my thing.
I don’t mind the fact that girls are crazy for him but I do mind that he is doing things with them and getting them pregnant. This nasty girl sent me a message on FB with a picture of their supposed baby. I showed him the picture and he said he doesn’t know the girl or the baby.
For some reason, I didn’t believe him. Why would this girl send me a message and go as far as to attach a baby picture if he wasn’t the father? I messaged her back although he told me to block her and asked for her number. She sent it right away. When I called she was cool and very sad. She said he knows he got her pregnant and has been ignoring her. She just wants his help and doesn’t want a relationship. I took it a step further and asked if I could visit her. She agreed.
I visited her and the baby and I fell in love with that child. He was the spitting image of my boyfriend and he couldn’t deny him. I went out and brought back some pampers and baby food and told her I would help her even if my boyfriend didn’t want to. The child was just too special to ignore.
My man was very upset with me and I explained to him that it didn’t matter if it was his or not. I would love that baby even if I had met him under different circumstances. I just feel a connection with the child and I can’t explain why but I won’t question or fight the feeling.
He has since left me and come back. He is shocked at my behaviour and he said that he needed to see this baby that I love so much. So I took him with me when I went to take some stuff to the mother. The girl cried when she saw him and told him that she didn’t want him but didn’t want him to ignore their child. He then admitted that he did sleep with her and he would like a paternity test just to be sure the little boy is his.
Since all of that, we have all been in contact with each other and giving the baby the love and care he deserves. My friends say I am crazy and that they would have left him for doing what he did but it’s just something I can’t explain. Children are innocent and love conquers all.
I just want to tell these women out here who use their children as revenge and treat them bad because of what their father did to the mother that it’s not the child’s fault. Raise them with love so that they understand what it is to love and be loved and therefore won’t repeat the cycle of broken relationships.
I don’t think I’m crazy, do you?
Signed,
In Love with Baby Boy
Dear ILWBB:
ReplyDeleteThis is a very rare situation. Some may even call it strange but I commend you for recognizing the baby’s needs and helping to provide for him. Your actions caused the father to acknowledge and ultimately be a part of his son’s life. Many women are unable to look past the infidelity and see the blessing of a new life. Kudos to you!
Now, I don’t want you ignoring the fact that your man is a cheater and I certainly don’t want you accepting it. You seem like a sensible woman with lots of love to give. If your boyfriend is not willing to have an exclusive relationship with you, I suggest you move on to someone who is worthy of your undeniably good heart.
Again, I commend you for looking out for “Baby Boy” and I hope you continue. Just don’t forget to look out for YOURSELF along the way.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
no wayyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!! girl u come from a different breed of woman. No way in hell would i take care of a child my man cheating on me and got. suppose it was a std instead of child that he gave you? what would you do then? no way! wisy u shouldn't commend her, u should send her to crazy ppl doctor! i know kids are innocent but no, no, no! she letting him know it's ok to cheat!
ReplyDeleteem soon bring pikney 2,3,4,5,6,ect...
ReplyDeleteI like this lady. She has a good head on her body. Her priority list is in order. I don't believe that cheating is a "deal breaker" anymore. A lot of men and woman cheat with their loins and not their heart. Sex is becoming like a cocktail drink.... we drink it because it taste good. We cheat because sex feel good...but please try to be careful, safe and responsible about it. Most girls would have attacked the mother and call her every nasty name in the book, but not you. You're an angel, and you will inspire many.
ReplyDeleteYou make so many great points here that I read your article a couple of times. Your views are in accordance with my own for the most part. This is great content for your readers. Baby Gate
ReplyDeleteI just want to sincerely appreciate the effort of Spy-lord for helping me gain access into my wife’s phone remotely without touching the phone.. I was able to spy on all her hidden conversations with her secret lover and found out the man she has been cheating on me with..I already filed a divorce, i can't continue with such a woman. Just in case you need such service i want to refer you all to him as he would be willing and ready to help you have a clear picture of the hidden things you do not know about your partner. He can also help you with school grade upgrades,credit card top-up, clearing of bad records and all that has to do with hacking,.Just send him a mail on hacksecrete@gmail.com , you can also call or message him on 617 402-2260 Spy-lord is always available to attend to your case.
ReplyDeleteInfidelity has been a common virus that is badly affecting today's marriage,i have been a victim of both emotional and physical cheat,but the truth was able to come to light after i seek for the service of a professional hacker.i never knew that the man i trusted so much been cheating on me,even on several basics my friend would tell me that she caught my man cheating but i would never believe her cuz i loved and trusted my partner so much,until i was introduced to a cyber genius(hackingloop)who helped me hack into his phone and gained me a total access to all his phone activities,it hurts to know that the one you love could be cheating on you,but i really had to let go,yet he wants me back after all the dark treats...if you are having a trust issue in your relationship,contact''hackingloop6@gmail. com'' OR text him on + 1 (612) 502 - 3647, he is a professional hacker,i know he can help you.
ReplyDeleteThe cyberlord582@gmail.com did the job under 6hrs,
ReplyDeletephone tracking and hacking. It good to just ask MICHAEL rather than
getting head bump thinking hard.
whatsapp or text +1 518 468 2985
My ex fiance was cheating on me but I had no proof and I felt crazy and paranoid at that time, I even felt I was losing my mind. I needed closure badly and I hired hacksecrete@gmail.com although it's unethical and it's something i had to do. just tell him i sent you... Though I am not proud of what I did but I had no choice, I was almost driven to the brink of suicide , he can also improve dept on credit cards..you can also whatsapp or text him on +1(774) 202-9445
ReplyDeleteHIRE A PHONE HACKER REVIEW-WEB BAILIFF CONTRACTOR
ReplyDeleteThe thought that your spouse is cheating on you is heart-breaking. Nothing in the whole world can be more stressful than an unfaithful spouse. It's one of the most universal reasons for household issues in society. It's actually so terrible for one to go through an unfaithful partner. The most ideal approach to such suspicions is to attempt everything in a bid to catch them in the act, if possible. While open, honest dialogue is always the best course of action, it doesn’t always yield open, and honest results when you’re dealing with a deceitful partner. And despite the increasingly flexible definitions of relationships, significant others continue to step out on their relationships and their partners. Perhaps, you’re that suspecting partner. You’ve felt it. That queasy, gnawing feeling in the pit of your stomach, you're sure your spouse is cheating. You've noticed the signs. Now you just need proof. Due to increasingly advanced technology, even though it's never been easier to cheat, it's also that much easier to catch the cheats. I found a review for this hacker Web Bailiff Contractor who deals with cloning a target phone and getting you information such as Facebook, Skype, Viber, WeChat, WhatsApp, Messages, Line among others from the target phone. I contacted him about my spouse phone and was surprised when I was able to see text messages, iMessages, deleted messages etc from the phone. I recommend Hacker Web Bailiff Contractor for all your hack and spy issues.
TO RECOVER MY STOLEN BITCOIN? CONSULT WEB BAILIFF CONTRACTOR
ReplyDeleteInvestment is always aimed at generating a profit, but the experience becomes nightmarish when you lose your money to online scammers. I know this from firsthand experience, as I was once a victim. I had lost $53,000 to a premium scam, and the financial and emotional toll was crippling. The situation was hopeless, and all my efforts at generating a profit had been for nothing. The despair and frustration were overwhelming as I tried to reconcile the loss of such a large amount of money. Fortunately, while in this distressed mood, I stumbled upon Web Bailiff Contractor. Their reputation for asset recovery efficiency and their experience in handling cases such as mine was a source of hope. I decided to reach out to them with the hope that they could have a solution to my predicament. I knew I was in good hands from the initial contact with Web Bailiff Contractor. Their team exhibited a thorough understanding of both the trading world and the nuances of recovery from online scams. They treated my case with a high level of professionalism and expertise, One of the most reassuring aspects of working with Web Bailiff Contractor was their clear communication and strategic approach. They explained the process and provided me with realistic expectations, which was very important in helping me keep my confidence up during the recovery process. They have an advanced team that utilized sophisticated techniques and tools to track and recover the money stolen from me. Their extensive experience in recovery process and trading technicalities was instrumental in recovering 95% of my lost money.The recovery process was not just effective, it was also timely. With Web Bailiff Contractor, I managed to recover $50,350 of my original $53,000 loss.